Some advice ? Warning ? My Point of View ?

It has come to an end..
Not a peaceful ending..
BUT..
I tell myself, it is alright to lose someone who doesn't appreciate me..

I understand that
没有人有义务要对我好。。
However,
我也没有义务要对你好。。
It is just a matter of choice lies in our own hand to decide..
Just remember that:
If you are not afraid of losing me, I am not afraid to walk away..
If this is the way you choose to use your second chance, nobody can stop you..

If your buddies are more important than your girl, please go and hug your buddies for the rest of your life because you don't need a girl..
Don't go make a girl feeling herself inferior to your buddies because every girl deserve to be treated as the most important person in someone's life..

If you don't plan to change your shitty attitude, don't expect your girl to accept the way you are..
Your girl doesn't deserve your shit..
Don't go telling your girl that she is lucky because you are loyal to her..
This is the most basic necessity in a relationship, not your privilege to your girl..

If you can't even keep a simple promise, don't make promise..
It just make you look bad..
When your girl has zero expectation on you, it only proves what a failure you are..
A girl's expectation reflected a guy's capability..

If you still living in your old relationship, don't go and start another relationship..
If you are yet to let go of that girl, then don't find another girl to make yourself feeling better..
A girl doesn't deserve to be used like that..
Or if you really so desperate, go find some bitches..

Your girl is not a dead object..
Take it when you want, throw when you don't need it..
Your girl is not for you to toss around..
If you are willing to cancel your date with your girl to spend time with buddies, Oh Gosh.. You seriously should stay single so you don't have to be a bad guy for your buddies..

Not to say buddies aren't important..
But a guy should be able to find the balance between friendship and relationship..
If you had promise your girl, just keep the promise.. Buddies will not want to ruin your relationship and make you difficult.. If not, use your brain to think;  What kind of friends you have?

But, if it is your choice to break your promise, then your girl just have to accept her fate..

Don't use the stupid excuse of being heartbroken before to break other girls' heart..
Go break the one who break your heart, not other people..
If you can't recover from the fear of being heartbroken, then stay that way and stay single..
Don't bother to find another girl anymore when you are afraid to fall in love again..
And don't expect your girl to love you full heartedly when you can't do the same..

I know equity may not exist in every single relationship..
Input doesn't equal to output..
But when it is sincere and full-hearted, who cares?

So, don't go give yourself stupid excuse to hurt other people..
If you want to dwell in your past, just do so.. And do it alone..
Being heartbroken doesn't give you the right to hurt others..
It also doesn't give you privilege in a relationship..

Ps... All these are solely my point of view....you may agree or disagree.. no offense..